FOM
Notes
Stop Meeting Each Other’s Needs
Part 4 of 6 in the series “How To
Get A Divorce”
April 20,
2008 Pastor
“Nobody should seek his own good, but
the good of others.”
I Corinthians 10:24
Meeting one another’s needs in marriage
starts with the right (heart)
“For this reason a man will leave his father and
mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.”
Genesis 2:24
If two are going to become one, we have
some (learning) to do
THE TWO THINGS I NEED TO LEARN TO BE
A BETTER SPOUSE
1. Learning to speak the right (language)
THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES
1. (Words) of affirmation
2. Acts of (service)
3. Quality (time)
4. Receiving
(gifts)
5. (Physical)
touch
Do I know my spouse’s love language?
Do I know what my love language is?
2. Learning to (maximize) my efforts
The Survey Says:
|
Women’s Greatest Needs |
Men’s Greatest Needs |
|
1. Affection |
1. Sexual Fulfillment |
|
2. Conversation |
2. Recreational Companionship |
|
3. Honesty/Openness |
3. Attraction |
|
4. Financial Security |
4. Domestic Support |
|
5. Family Commitment |
5. Admiration/Respect |
WHAT ARE MY SPOUSE’S TWO GREATEST
NEEDS?
WHAT ARE MY TWO GREATEST NEEDS?